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After School Special (2003)
IMDB rating: 4.80
Plot: Deacon, Matt and Fred will do anything for even a glimpse of sex and spend their mornings pirating porno movies from Fred’s after school job at the video store. But when Fred is fired, the well runs dry, and our heroes come up with a new plan: make their own “adult” film.
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Directors: Evans David M.
Actors: von Detten Erik,Denman Tony,Farber Daniel,Arnold Tom,Smith Riley,Vieluf Vince,Levine Samm,Sanz Horatio,Hedman Anders,Driscoll Eddie,Comedy,
how should i forgive myself and for how long should my punishment be for having an affair?
i had a love marriage 5 years ago. like all other girls i also had dreams in my eyes of having a special place in my husband’s life. but immediately after marriage i saw my dreams breaking like only one month after marriage he started behaving like he is fed up of me. every time i tried to hug him he would throw me aside. if we were going on a bike he would told me to sit properly and not to hold him. once i fainted and he didnt hold me as people were watching.(i was pregnant then) every time i tried to come near him he rebuked me saying that be mature now. we r married and there is no more need to show such gestures like holding hands or talking sweetly. concentrate on your work. i just felt he neded my body only as before marriage also,, he used to talk less and wanted to touch me more. but i thought all this to be love. after 5 years of courtship we got married. he is so practical and i m too emotional. all the time he made me feel inferioe like u r nt so beautiful or smart.( i m a good looking girl with5,6" height, fair complexion and good physique. i m always there for him like a good wife and fulfill his all needs without him saying a word.i give him all comfort a wife can give without complaining and always trying to make him happy.
so the point is guys i was feeling so miserable and alone as my mother in law is also torturing me all the time for some or other reasons. in this time a colleague of mine was continuosly showing his interest for me. he did everything i wanted from my husbend like caring me, giving me support in my tough times at work, increased my morale, made me feel very special. i fell for him but i never showed him as he was also married and i thought it to be a sin. but foolishly i told my husband about it as i wanted to be honest. he asked me to stop all this but i cud nt do it immediately as i was feeling it tough to rebuke a person who made me feel so special. however i know it was wrong. as my husband thinks that "a good wife should better die than asking for love outside even if her husband may torture her anyway or even kill her".it was only after 3 months of my husbands warning that i broke all contacts with him. now i am a characterless women for my husband he used to call me a prostitute and abuses me a lot. however it has been 2 years now that i have ended all this. he says i will suffer for my whole life. i love my husband very much and all what happened was out of my understandings . i couldn’t be able to stop all this in time. why all this happened? i m repenting a lot and dont want to leave him but he says he will never trust me again. what should i do? i didnt have any physical relation with that guy it was just a good feeling i was having in his company however i know it was wrong. but i cant change my past.today i have no feeling for that other guy and i feel ashamed of all that i did in desperation.my husband doesnt believe that i love him as he says love happens only once not again and again like you. but i really love him even more after this incident. but he says he doesnt have any interest in me now. everytime i want to be close to him , he throws me aside. i fel too much insulted as i cant be away from him but i have given him a lifelong reason to hurt me and do whatever he wants. however generally i m a shy girl and didnt have any boyfriend even in my college or school days. he was the first male in my life with whom i got so closed and married. i know i will not repeat this again but will he believe me? i need help . anybody there??
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marheather | Feb 08, 2010
So because you communicated with another man but weren’t physical(emotional affair) you think you should be mistreated and called a prostitute for the rest of your life?
Well he isnt going to change. His cruelty and your inability to stand up for yourself led to you getting emotional comfort from another man. That has ended, now the only way your ever going to be happy and have emotional fulfillment is to find a way to get your husband to give it you…..or leave.
You say you love him, do you? or do you just not love yourself? He emotionally neglects you when you just give and give and give. You feel unwanted and unloved and he will probably always make you feel this way. So what exactly is it that you love about him?
priv828 | Feb 08, 2010
Manisha, It is never okay to remain in a one sided relationship. Your husband is obviously abusive and have some underlining issues of his own. My advice to you 1.love yourself enough to realize that this is not how love is suppose to feel. 2. Find a relative or friend to stay with while you and your husband work through the issues under clinical supervision of a marriage counselor. 3. Stop apologizing for a mistake made 5 years ago. 4. He clearly said he wasn’t interested, so at this point cut your losses and move on. It is never okay for him to disrespect you. 5. Do not look back, it will be okay go on with your life. Do not sympathize, he has hurt you for the last time is the new mindset. Good Luck and I will be praying for you
tori | Feb 08, 2010
It sounds like it’s time for divorce. Really, you should have divorced before you had the affair. As you know, affairs are wrong, but escaping from your husband was the right idea. You just picked the wrong method. It sounds like he was being absolutely horrible, even emotionally abusive. There’s no shame in leaving a horrible marriage if you’ve tried your hardest to improve it. Having an affair doesn’t oblige you to spend the rest of your life allowing yourself to be abused in penance. You tried it for a while, but it’s been 2 years and he still hasn’t gotten over it. He probably never will. And he was a bad husband long before the affair even happened. Counseling is the only possible hope for your marriage now, but it sounds like your husband will refuse to go. Suggest it if it would make you feel better to have tried everything. Then file for divorce. You can find a better man. And even if you can’t, it’s better to be single than in an abusive relationship. Good luck.
Sahara | Feb 08, 2010
NO body is perfect. you made a mistake, but then so did he. He’s abused you in many ways and that is not your fault for having to get comfort from someone else as we are all entitled to have friends. God did not put us (woman) on the earth to cater to man. That is a man made law. The spiritually law states that we are here to be a help MEET.
You need to become stronger in yourself, find your own interest that don’t include him, even if that means finding a new career. Then when you learn to do things for yourself and become more independed nobody can say what you should or should not be doing. Always be respectful of your family but don’t be a slave to them.
purpleplums | Feb 09, 2010
As a woman and a wife you deserve to be treated with companionship and friendship. Truthfully, the other man made you feel happy, something you are lacking with your husband. I personally believe you guys need therapy however from your description of your husband, doesn’t seem as though he would be willing. I dnt think he is willing to give you any happiness nor sense of gratification… therefore, its time to stop thinking about him and start focusing on self. You’ve only experience one man your husband maybe its time for new adventures. Truthfully, with your telling your husband about your relationship with your co-worker, he should be wondering why you seeked attn from another man and try to fix the issue and reevaluate his self, not try to punish you to you die. I say if he is not willing to change, you have the choice to live life with a husband but no companionship or see what else is offered that can give you a reason to smile and live life.
lifes lesson | Feb 09, 2010
